"It really felt like being inside of a time capsule, and I love a good period piece," the rising singer-producer tells PEOPLE about dreaming up her "Not My Problem" music video Over the past year-plus ...

GREENSBORO, N.C. — In any relationship, communication is key. But sometimes, the wrong words can shut down a conversation. This morning, we're tackling a phrase that can create havoc: "Not my problem.

Even though it can be uncomfortable to say "no," delegate tasks, and manage time in the workplace, it's essential to personal health and well-being to set clear boundaries with co-workers and leaders.

"It really felt like being inside of a time capsule, and I love a good period piece," the rising singer-producer tells PEOPLE about dreaming up her "Not My Problem" music video Singer-producer Laila!